Wednesday, 28 March 2012

:)

I love making people happy. Making people happy makes me happy. Even if I feel shit, I'd rather make someone else feel better than, someone try and make me feel better because its what puts a smile on my face. I have so much love for the people who appreciate me. I've been through such a rough time, I feel as though I'm the only person in the world with troubles at times, but I'm not, and everyone deserves to have someone that can make them smile when no one else can. Since I left college due to being ill, the number of people I see everyday has deteriorated greatly. But the odd few and I mean "few", that have kept in touch and made me realise I'm not completely alone, I want to say thank you. As a dear friend posted the other day "It's about quality not quantity". Those words mean everything to me now.
The friends I have deserve to smile everyday and to bee happy, because that way, I am too.
<3

Friday, 10 February 2012

Quotes to make you smile, realise and love the life you live.

war doesn't determine who's right. war determines who's left.


expecting life to treat you well because you're a good person is like expecting an angry bull not to charge because you're a vegetarian.


hugging is healthy. it helps the immune system, cures depression, reduces stress, and induces sleep. it's invigorating, rejuvenating, and has no unpleasant side effects. it's nothing less than a miracle drug. hugging is all natural. it's organic, naturally sweet, has no artificial ingredients, environmentally friendly, and is 100% wholesome. hugging is the ideal gift, great for any occasion, fun to give and receive, shows you care, comes with its own wrapping paper, and of course, it's fully returnable.


Don't wish it were easier, wish you were better.


"You know, somebody actually complimented me on my driving today. They left a little note on the windscreen, it said 'Parking Fine.'"


"A baby-sitter is a teenager acting like an adult while the adults are out acting like teenagers."


"Happiness will never come to those who don't appreciate what they already have."


"Everybody wants to be happy. Nobody wants to feel pain, but you can't have a rainbow without a little rain."


"Success is a ladder that cannot be climbed with your hands in your pockets."


"I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not."


"Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are."


"I'm selfish, impatient, and insecure. I make mistakes. I am out of control and at times, hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you don't deserve me at my best."


"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so you can appreciate them when they're right. You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself. And sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together."


"Free speech carries with it some freedom to listen."


"Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for."


"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there."


"For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone."

Tuesday, 8 November 2011

Sometimes, to make yourself happy, you have to see a smile on someone else's face, and know that you put it there.

So it's Christmas coming up soon it's roughly about 45 days away? and only about 21 until the first of December. My parents asked me if I wanted anything in particular this year, and I couldn't think of anything. Maybe it's because I'm getting older I don't know.
Thinking about it quite a lot, I realised why I couldn't think of anything. This year, I've had to cope with illness, stress, family problems and the death of both my grandparents. But why should that make me special? Well, it doesn't, not any more special than the next person. I know, that what I have gone through is hard, but so what? I'm pretty darn sure there are people in the world, who have suffered much more misfortune than me. It could even be as bad as comparing a penny to a thousand pounds.
So now I know what I want. This year I would like to have a nice Christmas, I want to make sure all my friends and family are happy. But more than anything this Christmas I wish and hope that for all those out there that are suffering or going through a lot in some way or form, are happy and will have one of the best christmas' they will ever have.
One of the reasons I make my self smile everyday, is in hope that it will affect the mood of others around me. Everyone deserves to be happy, even if i'm not :)

Friday, 9 September 2011

People.

Time for a new tone to my posts. I don't whinge all the time I promise! But I have to vent somehow! :) 
So yeah. People - They make me happy. By people I mean friends, family and neighbors. I have  so many amazing friends that care and look out for me as much as I do for them. Sometimes, I don't think they realise how much I truly appreciate it. I know I'm not the only person in the world with problems and I know that they're are people much worse off, that don't have anyone to talk too. Just the little things in our everyday life that sometimes we forget to appreciate, but in actual fact, if these "little things" weren't there, our lives would be completely different. I think it's about time people started telling their friends how much they truly mean to them. Or just saying something nice to them, compliment them, tell them how amazing they are. You never know you could have just made their day! I have a few friends that are always asking how I am, telling me I'm beautiful when I feel ugly, telling me to smile when I'm down and letting me know every thing's going to be okay when all is wrong. 
My gran passed away this year, and I'd reached a new low - Emotion wise.
The next day, I had a full day of DVD's snuggly P.J's and baking ahead of me. One of my best friends was there for me, at the click of a finger. It made me realise that I wasn't alone and  I had support throughout my hard times.
I love my friends, family and neighbors. More than words can describe. I wrote this blog to show my appreciation. Because looking back over the years, I'd have amounted to nothing without them.